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Couple Thanks McLean For Help in Dog Search

Letter to the Editor: 'We have to move forward' after loss of five-year-old Yorkie, Theo

To the community:

Thank you again for everyone’s support and kind words.

I just wanted to provide those who have checked-in with a little more detail as to how things ended.

We received some calls with information on Wednesday that , made it back in our direction on Monday late afternoon, and back towards McLean Hamlet on Monday evening before dark. For those who have seen the map link and/or are familiar with the area, you know this is not an easy feat – in one of the most trafficked and congested areas in the country, Theo made several round-trips in his attempts to come home. We received several calls indicating that traffic actually stopped for him and many people got out of their cars and attempted to summon him. Thank you to those who had a heart and at least tried to do something and thank you those who called us to tell us what happened.


With the help of several recommendations and the support of the owner of the company that was providing the walking services when Theo escaped, we got Sam and her expert tracking dog from Pure Gold Pet Tracking to come down and help us on Wednesday night.

While waiting for Sam to come down, we received a call from a gentleman named Taylor who indicated he saw and tried to pursue Theo on Monday night near Anderson / Rt-123 – unfortunately Theo went to hide in a construction site and Talyor left his car stopped on Rt-123 during rush hour so he had to stop and go back. This gave us tons of hope and provided a new lead (thank you Taylor!).

Sam and Salsa arrived early evening on Wednesday to begin the search. They started where Taylor last saw Theo on Monday, and tracked a path up to the Mclean Police Department, specifically to a secure area that we where initially not allowed to go. The officers on duty (rightly) were suspicious of the random request to search a secure area, but thanks to the folks on this page who called various organizations and the beneficence/kindness of the officers there that night, the Police Chief and Animal Control allowed us to do what needed to be done (all supervised and within regulations). Unfortunately, this process delayed our search by at least one hour. Sam and Salsa found a very clear (and obvious) path that Theo likely followed; we believe he was hiding there for some time. The found a path out of the station up Lewinsville; however, Salsa indicated his path stopped around Windy Hill Rd. Sam was certain, based on Salsa’s reaction that Theo’s path stopped there (hoping that someone picked him up there). We disbanded at that point (around 11:30 p.m.).

Around 12:15 a.m. Thursday we received a call from an officer stating that he had JUST spotted Theo near Scotts Run Rd. (near where tracking stopped) and that he was not looking well (he stumbled towards the officer and took a few steps back – the officer did not pursue). We immediately bolted for his location. Unfortunately, when we arrived on the scene a short while later, we found the officer guarding Theo’s body on the overpass on Lewinsville a block away; he was just off the sidewalk. The officer assisted me getting to the car with Theo, and we rushed to the Hope Center. On the way over we administered CPR in the hope to save him; sadly, it was too late. The Hope Center tried everything and in the end said it was best to stop all attempts as his injuries looked so damaging that it would be inhumane if he were to be brought back. We decided to stop all attempts to bring Theo back. He was declared dead at approximately 1 a.m. Based on his condition, it wasn’t clear exactly what brought his end (he had some injuries consistent with possibly being smacked by a car, but nearly 3 days of being alone in McLean took its toll). Nonetheless, we're very proud of him for surviving as long as he did and under the conditions he did; we're also proud to know we live in a community that allowed him to survive as long as he did and helped us try to find him. The end.

We have tons of people to thanks for the help, support, and kind words in the last few days. I can’t name everyone here, but I will do a quick summary:

Several folks from our community (including some at The Colonies – thank you Allison, Pamela, Carol, Patsy and all the other unnamed folks for coordinating/supporting locally) volunteered some time to go out with their dogs and search; some non-local folks came down too (thank you to Debra and her bichon team). A very nice person from the McLean Hamlet neighborhood supported us by keeping in touch and distributing our info to their community email distribution list (thanks Roxanne!); we also encountered many nice/supportive folks there while out searching this week.

The folks on various forums, other FB pages (Lost & Found Dogs – VA and DC), local news sites (McLean Patch – thank you Erica and Allison!), and the Washington Metro Express newspaper (thank you Rachel for getting in a late addition ad and to Maxine for responding and distributing information!) also provided us with critical support through this.

The owner of the company who was providing the walking services when Theo escaped and her team also helped us do a lot of canvassing, postering, and helped us work with Sam; gratitude to them for helping. The local community also sustained a lot of postering from many sources – thank you to everyone in those communities for your patience in dealing with the posters (we trust that they understand it was for a good cause). Several local businesses were EXTREMELY willing to help/allow us to poster (7-11 in McLean, Safeway, Safeway gas station, Starbucks, McLean Hardware, Wylie Wagg, ABC store in McLean, some folks in Tysons Corner… I’m sure I’m forgetting some…); there were some that weren’t so helpful.

To all the folks that called us with information… THANK YOU!

To the officer who made the call to us at the end… THANK YOU!

To the doctors at the Hope Center who tried to save Theo… THANK YOU!

To those who have been reading/keeping up on this and sending us kind words… THANK YOU! We could definitely use your words of support, advice etc. as we try to keep up our spirits. We have to move forward and make sure that his brother, Ares, can also move forward without his companion and best friend of 4 years."

- Carmen and Mike Zapata, McLean

SP August 25, 2012 at 03:00 pm
This is a tragic, yet wonderful post. You are so awesome to let everyone know the story. I hope this reminds people to stop and help if they see a stray dog. Chances are that the "stray" has a loving family searching for it. I am so sorry for your loss. I am so thankful you thanked the community and for all their help. This also illustrates the value of the Patch papers - truly local stories that bring communities together.
Itsjustapet August 25, 2012 at 03:12 pm
If only people cared as much about each other.
SP August 25, 2012 at 03:59 pm
"If only people cared as much about each other" - thankfully you had the compassion to take time out of your busy day to post that. I'm sure that stating "it's just a pet" is a terrific comfort to this family and all the people who helped them. I'm sure you feel very good about that. Well played.
anne gruner August 26, 2012 at 01:10 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. Your story made me cry. I know what it is to loses beloved companion.
Carmen Zapata September 3, 2012 at 08:35 pm
Thank you everyone for your support. We're keeping the Facebook.com/FindTheo site up for folks to comment on and get updates about Theo's brother Ares. We've also established a donation page with the Washington Humane Society where you can donate to the WHS in Theo's name: http://support.washhumane.org/goto/theo
Thanks again for everyone's support and kind words.
Carmen Zapata September 3, 2012 at 11:42 pm
SP, Thank you so very much. You are so right. Albeit tragic, this experience did teach us that we live in a rich community where we all can come together in times of need - be it for a human or for a loved non-human companion who is indeed part of the family. We forgive those who have not had the privilege to truly LOVE another being (be it human or not) and truly feel the deep pain and loss that we are feeling now. We can only but regret that individuals like the one posting as "Itsjustapet" have been deprived of pure, unconditional love and have no idea hat we are going through feels like. - Thank you SP for your support, Carmen
Carmen Zapata September 3, 2012 at 11:45 pm
Thank you for your kind words Anne. Both Mike and I truly appreciate it. We just posted on Theo's facebook page a way to donate to the WHS in his name as well as details on his funeral. Please do take a look if would like. www.facebook.com/findtheo
Carmen Zapata September 3, 2012 at 11:51 pm
Ditto to SP's comment. See my comment above on your regard. I hope that one day you find the love that you so need. In any case, I still disagree with your comment. Even in this case, people DID care about each other. Our community came together as ONE and helped my HUMAN FAMILY in a time of need. Those who helped us, knew what Theo meant to us and how desperately he needed our help. I am sorry you have not ever experienced something like it.
- RIP, Theo 8/23/12 Carmen
Carmen Zapata September 4, 2012 at 05:08 pm
Concerened Citizen, thanks so much for your support!
It sounds like between what we were able to do and what the volunteers and the team employed by the company who lost Theo were able to do, the spread of posters went pretty wide and to places we are unaware of. This just reinforces our thanks to those that helped and the community for keeping a watchful eye because we couldn't have covered that much ground by ourselves. We personally picked up posters we put up; unfortunately, we cannot get to every poster we didn't put up if we don't know where exactly they were put, but as we find them we've been taking them down. We're sorry you've been caused so much aggravation by this ordeal. Please let us know exact locations where you're finding these posters that you were unable to remove and we'll come out and get them. Thanks again for helping out by removing the ones you did come across (after learning of the outcome). Thanks again for your support.
MN September 9, 2012 at 03:01 am
To the "Concerned Citizen"....Are you freakin kidding me?? Have you ever lost someone so beloved as Theo? My guess is NO, my guess is you may not be capable of such love. How in the world can a poster cause YOU such aggravation, seriously...take it down for goodness sake!! I am so outraged that you felt the need to comment on here about a piece of paper "the blight left over is tremendous", REALLY...tremendous, a Poster???? Give me a break, do you have any clue what this ordeal has been like for the family? I truly hope that you never need help like this...karma is bitch!
R September 14, 2012 at 03:42 am
"Concerned Citizen" -- It is quite the insensitive thing to ask. I hear your point, but maybe put more thought into your response next time. It's not so hard to say you've made a point of taking some posters down to help them before pointing out where they might be able to find others for removal.
Maxine September 20, 2012 at 02:55 am
I can't believe you would find lost pet posters a "blight." How insensitive. In a world where there are signs and advertisements everywhere from bus stops to bathrooms trying to sell everything from food to sex, someone like you must be beside herself! I lost a pet (and never found him). The hardest part was the criticism I received from people like you who had nothing else to worry about but signs on telephone poles and those that actually tore them down. I felt as if I was a criminal when all I wanted to do was find my beloved cat. Recently a dog was lost in our area. The family papered the town with posters and after the dog was found dead, we all rallied to help them and we removed the signs to save their broken hearts. On a lighter note, I personally reunited a deaf cat with his owner after she posted a sign that was up for weeks until I happened to see on one of the listserves that a family was looking to find a home for a deaf cat that matched her description. I put two and two together and got them talking and sure enough, she was reunited with her cat. When it works, it's great. Theo's loss was sad for everyone who cared. Seeing a few signs still up may bother you, but for some of us, it reminds us how easy it is to help someone and how even these tragedies bring out our better natures.
Carmen Zapata September 26, 2012 at 06:03 pm
Just to be clear, I was offended and did find the timing and generality of the request insensitive, but I do understand that litter is not a good thing so I took the time to assure you during your difficult time (I'm sure hope that you're recovering) that we were in the process of trying to clean up after a massive search conducted by countless people going to areas we could not account for without input. You did not say where you lived/saw these ("everywhere" is a big place), so the request was unhelpful on top of everything else.
We did our best in the time frame we had to get approvals/acceptance of the community - and had the help of the police and fire departments for this effort (one of these “blightful” posters prompted the officer to call us when he found Theo). Point being, I just don’t think your attempts to justify your comments as a concern about “litter” is going to resonate with a bunch of concerned folks that were genuinely trying to help us and offer real condolences. If you were so concerned, you could have used the contact info on any number of the posters you were blighted with to call/email us privately and tell us what your problem was and where all the offending posters were. What really drives this home is that you’re now littering on a public forum to maintain some kind of credibility for yourself when you should just leave this situation be. If you see more posters, let us know; else, please just drop it – this isn’t about you.

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